world from Crista’s husband, Theran Golden.
He was watching his wife’s C-section and the birth of their son, Jaxon,
through a Skype connection in Crista’s delivery room in Silverton, Oregon.
the 234 Combat Engineers. Some of their duties are to build or repair roads and
buildings during combat, as well as to clear minefields. While Crista was in
labor, Theran and his fellow soldiers were in an undisclosed location overseas.
The Red Cross had arranged a Skype connection for them so that Theran could
witness their baby’s birth; however,
the area where Theran’s unit was assigned was in a blackout. When the rest of
his unit learned that Theran needed a wireless internet connection, they quickly gave him
every charged battery pack they had and went in search of the connection.
monitor perched on a cart so that Crista could see and talk to Theran. While the staff disinfected the screen and
cart they kept saying over and over, “We don’t normally do this.”
us have that Skype connection, because it was the first time Theran was able to
watch the birth of one of our four children.”
came into the delivery room. Crista had been in hard labor for 36 hours without
is dropping.” Both mother and baby were in danger. “We need to do an emergency
could only watch as the doctor gave his beloved wife an epidural to deaden the
pain and perform surgery. Even though Theran had seen a birthing video
beforehand, he still wasn’t fully prepared to see Crista in surgery. She needed
a total of 285 stitches inside and out.
After the birth, Crista was still groggy from the medication when she saw Theran crying on screen and heard their baby’s first cries.
their newborns until much later. I’m really thankful and blessed.”
or old friends because they lived too far away. She did, however, have the
support of other military wives. They still keep in touch today. It was a
military liaison that told Crista about ways the Red Cross could help her
connect with Theran when she went into labor. After Crista called the Red Cross
Hero Care Network, the Red Cross notified Theran’s chain of command that Crista
was in labor and arranged the Skype connection with the hospital.
Today, Theran is in the process of being medically
boarded out of the military where he served for six and a half years.
stronger and better because of Theran,” said Crista. “He’s a hero to me and our
Theran was a combat engineer during his service in the
military. Now he’s in college to become a biologist. Crista is enrolled in a
nursing program and is a blood donor ambassador for the Red Cross. Both are
full-time students. Both are A
students. Crista jokes that when they
get together as a family in the evening, they all spend their time at the
dining table doing homework.
said. “But nothing is as hard as
military life. When my husband got
hurt—it just made me appreciate everything more. Even though we’re really busy
with soccer, girl scouts—all the kids’ activities—nothing is as hard as
military life. I’m grateful to the Red
Cross for their help to make the Skype connection happen, and to my husband’s friends in
the 234 Combat Engineers.”
Hero Care Network is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year. You
can contact the center by phone or online.
To learn more, go to the center’s webpage at: Red Cross Emergency Contact Center. The
Red Cross also provides military families with other resources such as Deployment Services and Homecoming and Reconnection Workshops